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MISSION: The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey 501(c)3 Nonprofit Corporation has a primary goal to provide services to those affected by domestic violence and AIDS. We are a faith based organization, believing in the power of God to deliver souls, setting them free from the bondage of oppression, depression and possession of evil and violence. We refer domestic violence abusers and victims to counseling, prayer and/or suicide hotlines, as well as provide a support system that will ultimately enable both the abuser and victim to establish a fresh start at life. The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey will approach these tragic life issues in a new and radical manner, displaying tremendous passion through various projects, such as The Real Man Campaign: Man to Man Advocacy Program, which is a voluntary outreach to male abusers, utilizing male advocates. We are the first domestic violence agency to establish a 24 Hour National Abuser Hotline, (888) SOS-ABUSER, which is a crucial tool to intervene in time of need for the abusers that want help and are seeking a positive change before a life is lost. Other services will be workshops, public speaking, group sessions, educational programs, support and guidance, as well as many other forms of advocacy and outreach. We believe change begins when ones vision is seen and mirrored in the eyes of others, then acted upon to change the world in a powerful and positive manner.
VISION: The vision of The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey is to eliminate domestic violence and AIDS by utilizing new programs. One main focus is to identify abusers who are ready to change their lives from violent to non violent and offer a positive support system to ultimately avoid more lives being lost. The focus is different from the court ordered 'anger management' in the compassion approach versus conviction approach. Mentors will strive to approach abusers in a manner that will allow them the freedom to express what many may have suppressed for long periods of time. There may have been issues of child molestation, child abuse, witnessing of domestic violence in their childhood home, some abusers may have been victims themselves of domestic violence, etc. Currently most abusers are ordered to attend 'anger management' in lieu of jail time. The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey is establishing crucial volunteer services for domestic violence abusers, so that abusers have the opportunity to seek help, before the case gets to court, before they are 'ordered' to attend 'anger management', before they are actually jailed and especially before they contemplate a murder or murder/suicide.
The 'youth division' of The Real Man Campaign: Man to Man Advocacy Program, will identify abusers at a young age and guide them through mentorship with compassion, into a non violent lifestyle. It is extremely important to address domestic violence in abusers at the earliest age and stage. This will allow the potential victims and the abusers to lead a much more productive and healthy lifestyle, as well as save a life and/or lives which could be taken in a violent rage, if not intervened.
AIDS is a global pandemic and will be addressed by The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey in an aggressive, radical approach through awareness campaigns, referrals to counseling, prayer and public service announcements.
And these signs shall follow them that believe; In my name shall they cast out devils; they shall speak with new tongues; They shall take up serpents; and if they drink any deadly thing, it shall not hurt them; they shall lay hands on the sick, and they shall recover.
You can't cure a natural problem through the Spirit and you can't cure a spiritual problem through the natural...There is a spirit world and there is a natural world. We live amongst both, good and evil, light and darkness, the Kingdom of God and the kingdom of Satan.
We believe in the all knowing, all powerful ability of Jesus Christ to change every heart from stony to flesh, from evil to good, from violent to non violent! Deliverance in the name of Jesus is the ONLY way! MARK 16: 17,18
The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization in direct response to the worldwide domestic violence and AIDS pandemic. Both are taking lives at an alarming rate. The need for awareness and additional resources is crucial. The advocacy programs created by The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey, such as The Real Man Campaign: Man to Man Advocacy Program, will be utilized by abusers who may otherwise be forced into the court system and ordered into 'anger management' by a Judge, or when both victim and abuser may be at the point of lives being lost. The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey has a primary goal to stop domestic violence, dropping the murder/suicide rate, as well as bringing much more awareness to the growing AIDS population.
The Real Man Campaign: Man to Man Advocacy Program is an outreach to male abusers, utilizing male advocates to connect and counsel men on a volunteer basis versus court ordered. The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey seeks non violent, positive men who are ready, willing and able to assist in this urgent project. We are asking churches, associations, fraternities, athletic clubs, sports teams, law enforcers, celebrities, etc. to step up, help get the word out and stand up to be your brothers keeper. We believe men should take a responsible role in promoting equality and cooperation in relationships, domestic violence advocacy (intervention and prevention), pregnancy prevention, sexual health, contraceptive use, as well as in overcoming stereotypical gender roles. Community involvement, partnerships and government assistance are the keys which will contribute to the success of The Real Man Campaign: Man to Man Advocacy Program. We will address problems that may be a contributing factor in abusive behavior such as alcohol/drug use, generational violence, etc. Women can assist by connecting positive, non violent men to our corporation. The benefits of The Real Man Campaign and Man to Man Advocacy Program will be, lives saved, intercession, family restoration, volunteer help versus ordered.
The Real Man Campaign: Man to Man Advocacy Program will have a youth/young man division, geared toward addressing boys to young men that may have witnessed domestic violence in their homes or those who have become abusers themselves. We believe young men need a proper outlet and outreach to them provided by young men to address anger issues which may have stemmed from growing up in a violent environment. We will provide hands on workshops in our facilities, as well as go into grade schools, middle schools, high schools, colleges and youth arenas to bring awareness and offer volunteer help to young men in need. This will be accomplished through male youth counselors, advocates, mental health workers and social workers
The domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey is looking to have The Real Man Campaign: Man to Man Advocacy Programs operating in every state, with a vision to expand globally to address domestic violence all over the world. ***VOLUNTEERS NEEDED*** CONTACT DVAMNJ FOR MORE INFORMATION
The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey is the first organization to lead in the development of a National 24 Hour ABUSER Hotline, which will work in conjunction with The Real Man Campaign: Man to Man Advocacy Program and will be established to operate just like the National Victims Hotline, with the exception of utilizing male advocates to answer calls from male abusers. This will allow volunteer access to help in time of need, versus court ordered, which is too late for many cases. There is help twenty four (24) hours a day, seven days a week for domestic violence victims, however, we need assistance for abusers even more in order to break the cycle of abuse, which will ultimately save many lives, as well as restore many families. The hotline will be the first tool of prevention to get crucial help to abusers that are seeking to change their destructive lifestyle, before it's too late and especially before there is a murder/suicide.***VOLUNTEERS ARE NEEDED*** CONTACT DVAMNJ FOR MORE INFORMATION
What Are The Warning Signs For Suicide?
Seek help as soon as possible by contacting a mental health professional or by calling the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK if you or someone you know exhibits any of the following signs:
Threatening to hurt or kill oneself or talking about wanting to hurt or kill oneself
•Looking for ways to kill oneself by seeking access to firearms, available pills, or other means
•Talking or writing about death, dying, or suicide when these actions are out of the ordinary for the person
•Feeling hopeless
•Feeling rage or uncontrolled anger or seeking revenge
•Acting reckless or engaging in risky activities - seemingly without thinking
•Feeling trapped - like there's no way out
•Increasing alcohol or drug use
•Withdrawing from friends, family, and society
•Feeling anxious, agitated, or unable to sleep or sleeping all the time
•Experiencing dramatic mood changes
•Seeing no reason for living or having no sense of purpose in life
WWW.DAHMW.ORG
1-888-743-5754
The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women has been helping those in need for a number of years. It is run and operated by unpaid volunteers who have devoted enormous amounts of time to ensuring that both male and female victims of domestic abuse get the help and respect they need to free themselves from violent relationships.
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
1-800-787-3224 TTY
WWW.THEHOTLINE.ORG
If you are in extreme danger, call 911.
*Calls to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, will be referred to local domestic violence agencies*
1-800-SUICIDE
Loveisrespect, National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline was launched in February 2007 with help from founding sponsor, Liz Clairborne Inc. It is a national 24-hour resource that can be accessed by phone or the internet, specifically designed for teens and young adults. The Helpline and loveisrespect.org offer real-time one-on-one support from trained Peer Advocates. Managed by the National Domestic Violence Hotline (NDVH), loveisrespect, National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline operates from a call center in Austin, Texas. Peer Advocates are trained to offer support, information and advocacy to those involved in dating abuse relationships as well as concerned parents, teachers, clergy, law enforcement, and service providers.
Donna Savage is the Founder/Executive Director of The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey 501(c)3 Non Profit Corporation. She is an Evangelist, Domestic Violence Survivor/Advocate, Author, public speaker and educator. I am blessed to be alive to help those still entangled in the tragic lifestyle of domestic violence, with the keen focus on addressing abusers in a compassionate manner. Donna's personal experience and passion for both tragic lifestyles of domestic violence and AIDS has become her driving force to make a difference and save many lives.
LOCAL: 862-251-4472
TOLLFREE: 888-767-2287
ABUSER HOTLINE: 888-SOS-ABUSER
E-MAIL: dvamnj_gmail.com
ABUSERS
If you are an abuser and you acknowledge your need for help, we are here for you. The Real Man Campaign: Man to Man Advocacy Program and The National 24 Hour Abuser Hotline (888)SOS-ABUSER are two vital tools which will help you to become non violent. Please contact us for confidential services which are available to assist you into a non violent lifestyle or by email
VICTIMS
If you are in immediate danger, please call 911 or the National 24 Hour Victims Hotline (800) 799-SAFE (7233)
If you need a support system or want to speak to a domestic violence advocate confidentially, please contact us at (862) 251-4472 or via email
SURVIVORS
If you are a Survivor of domestic violence, you may want to speak about your experiences or the struggle to overcome the pain which still resides in your mind. We are here to help you with the healing process along with support, resources and compassion. Feel free to contact us at (862) 251-4472 or via email
The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey 501(c)3 Non Profit Corporation
P.O. Box 709 Flanders New Jersey 07836
All Checks and Money Orders can be sent to the above address. Secured payment can be made with Credit/Debit Cards by using Paypal.
The organization appreciates monetary donations, however we have need of office supplies, such as computers, printers,fax machines, copy paper, desks, chairs, notebooks,pens/pencils, telephones, etc. as well as equipment for media productions such as microphones, cameras, audio, ect.
We appreciate all donations! Thank you! From the staff at The Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey 501(c)3 Non Profit Corporation.
***ALL DONATIONS ARE TAX DEDUCTABLE***
We need you!
We need volunteers in all areas. Victim Advocates, Abuser Advocates (male and female), Hotline Assistants, Marketing/PR, Grant Writers, Community Outreach Advocates, Event Coordinators and other clerical volunteers. All donations of time, expertise, and resources are vital to the Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey, in order to make a positive change in the tragic world of domestic violence and AIDS. We are seeking the asssistance of advocates, churches, associations, fraternities, athletic clubs, law enforcers, health care professionals, mentors, community leaders, etc. to join us in this quest to break the vicious cycle of domestic violence and the spread of AIDS.
To become a mentor or advocate with the Domestic Violence and AIDS Mission of New Jersey, you must be 18 years of age or older, non violent and ready to assist the in the mission and vision of the orgaization.
***Training and experience are a plus, however, we will assist all participants in obtaining the necessary training and requirements to become a domestic violence advocate.***
